I want to drop out of college. Yes, may sound stupid, dumb, moronic. But I have reasons. First, there's no point in studying in an university where there is nothing that I want to study; why would I spend my life in an area I'm not interested in? Second, I'm only wasting my parents' money and effort, because of said lack of interest, and my noticeable decrease in academic efficiency - which has, in fact, turned to inefficiency - and I am tired of doing that to them. Three, I don't feel like I deserve it anymore, not for some time anyways. I have to learn to work hard and be willing to make the sacrifices required to succeed, and until then, I do not wish to go on taking the easy way.
Obviously, I have a plan. I intend to get a job, with which I'll pay my parents all the money they spent on me this semester, and save the rest for my future education. Additionally, my plan is to keep studying, but independently; meaning, out of school, reviewing all my knowledge using my old books and notes, and other books and resources I may get my hands into; later on, study again in an university. Start with the efficiency and sacrifices; among those sacrifices: no more videogames, decrease TV time 90%, spend most of my time working, studying, and helping out at home.
This sounds hard, yes, and I want it to be that way, because I always take the easy way out, and I realized that is not doing any good to anyone, and is in fact causing trouble to myself and others, and I've had it, I do not wish to be a burden for my family anymore.
Now, this may sound a little selfish, but I would like to ask a favor of you. Could you please give me some advice on how to tell my parents? I'm going to get advice at school anyways, but I have to tell them that, and this time, I'm willing to take on the consequences, no matter how painful it is.
p.s.- Evidently, this means my time online will have to decrease, but I'll always have some time for you, my friends. You mean a lot to me, there are no words to describe how grateful I am to have wonderful friends as you.
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In the end I'd take the direct approach and not beat around the bush. Just tell them flat out. I know it may seem a little tactless, a little straight forward, but a big issue requires one to be decisive in their actions. Explain to them how you feel and the reasons why. There are situations that call for a light touch and ones that require a direct one and a blow like this, even if softened, is going to hit relatively the same so may as well not waste time and show some merit by being upfront about it.
Thats just my two cents.
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la verdad es ke yo no sería capaz de hacer eso, y prefiero hacer lo necesario para mi bien y el de mi familia
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Of course, I will talk to my parents, and the school counselors, before actually putting this plan into action.
Thanks for sharing your experience with me, and for your concern my friend
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Course that's just me...you have such strong feelings towards this. I wish I was more helpful with advice...
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lo mejor para mi, no lo sé, y no estoy seguro siquiera si me importa, pero si de algo estoy seguro, es ke kiero lo mejor para ellos, y esa preocupación y tristeza que les causé aquella vez no son lo mejor para su bien...
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